Those who have allowed flashy things confuse them and suddenly all they think and dream about is money, if a man is not rich today you can't marry; no money, no love. Take it easy...
Go to Lekki, Abuja or some other big places: You will see many married women in their 40s and 50s who have become sex objects to small boys; they sleep with boys and even pay them. Why? Many of them did not marry the right husband for their destiny back then, they married for money.
Today their lives are dirty, they swim in adultery; there is money but no love, their "rich husband" is not even godly. The only time these big women are happy is when they sneak out of their husband's mansion to sleep with small boys in hotels. Inside they are crying, but they smile outside.
Money is good; but slow down and do your best to get it right.